Sass will Bite you in the Ass?

My grandmother always told me, be careful what you say, for you will chew on it later.
The meaner the words, the meaner the taste.

Not that I ever pay attention to advice, I pass it on, thats what you do with advice.

But in an unprecedented interest in what I write, all of sudden people realized that I write and I actually write about them and an intense surge of moral indignation overwhelmed everyone and in a ridiculous feat of self-righteousness, people I never thought I would hear from again, demanded, threatened and warned me to remove any reference to themselves or their lovers or friends.

Some went as far as the threat facial mutilation (very classy indeed), others quietly but sternly demanded that such unabashed distortion of facts be removed.

While I am infinitely flattered by this detailed reading and interpreting of what I write, I am astounded by the moral condescending and patronizing attitude!

Gentlemen and vicious queens whose conduct towards myself is at the very least abominable, had the nerve to actually claim the upper moral hand, because my writing "reeks of bitterness" and "falsehood".

Really??

Did everyone all of sudden settle happily in conjugal bliss and this scene as I know it, converted to some esoteric Eastern religion?

Those who appreciate my frivolous posts, understand it as a gross generalization and sensationalization of true, existing facts.
What I write can never be taken or read realistically or literally.
"Vicious cunt" is hardly a sociological category, much to my own dismay.

But the prevailing reading of a "bitter spinster" who is constantly angry about her surroundings, only is true as far its funny or satirical.
The moment anyone actually takes for granted the playfulness, the vitriolic style, literally, the whole magic is gone!

Nothing succeeds or inspires as excess.

An apologetic, flat, linear writing about this scene and this community would be the last thing I would read or would like to read or write about for that matter.

The language must have a strong element of exaggeration, manipulation, undertones, overtones, subtext, ubertext, modal variation, unprecedented license when it comes to facts and so on and so forth.

Those who are afraid that this "colorful" language might affect them or project them in an "unforgiving light" and so instantly asked that I censor it, defeat the entire purpose of this blog.
Not that I did not purposefully remove these references, but save your pity sweetheart, I am not the first queen to be jilted and act bitchy about it!
At least I had the balls to write about it!

More interesting to me is that my scathing critique of the prevailing shallowness, disloyalty, complete lack of respect that are actual there, very strongly present and that seems to make everyone who read this blog self-righteous and indignant.
I am sorry to burst your bubble but I am not sure what part of vicious queens don't you get?

If I count the times that someone said something absolutely cruel and untrue about me, I would go to triple digits.
And if I count the number of times that malicious gossip was said about me, I would be in the same triple digit range.
And I think of the numbers of times of those particular gentlemen whose "moral record" is anything but questionable, were dishonest and perfidious, we are still in that triple digit range.

Lets call a fairy by her name, and lets not all act shocked that yes actually a lot of the friendships that are formed within this community are dissolved in the most horrible of ways.
And lets not act so shocked that very few individuals in this community actually value honesty and truthfulness.
And lets not act so shocked when the few scarce gentlemen out there, play the 1000 and 1 queens against each other, by the mere lack of any gentlemen to begin with.
And lets not act so horrified that the moral makeup of this community does not veer from crude pragmatism, moral ambivalence and downright intentional malice.

I can look myself in the eye and admit that yes, what I write reeks of bitterness, a lot of self-delusion but its never shallow and never lacks color!
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